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March 18, 2024

Two women and a conversation about race and grace

Here I am, a white chick, learning what’s appropriate to ask of a black woman when it comes to her lived experience. Thank God for Wanda Smith who is grace and wisdom embodied into one beautiful human. I ask a lot of careful…
Feb. 17, 2024

The Valentine letter I received

A love letter ended up in my hands. It’s the week of all things LOVE and I’m feeling moved to record an impromptu, mini-episode with just us…you and me – as I share a message received on Valentine's Day. I hope that revealin…
Feb. 13, 2024

REALity check: Listening to our bodies

Another REALity check on the couch with one of my besties - Christina and I share honest stuff about our bodies and how to process emotions and the sensations we feel. It gets pretty personal at points.
Feb. 1, 2024

Adversity to REAL Impact with Dr. Sarah Almilli

This talk with Dr. Sarah Almilli underscores the very reason I started this podcast! We start with my recap of when I was called a racist (among other fun things) on social media – and my determination to pursue conversation…
Jan. 15, 2024

A spiritual conversation with no suitable title

I love convos where we explore spirituality without arguing religion, dogma, and “which faith corners the market on righteousness.” My beliefs have shifted profoundly over the years and a spirit of inquiry and exploration fe…
Jan. 8, 2024

This is the face of PTSD?

Megan O’Connor was a 15-year career firefighter and medic when I met her; a woman of huge kindness and empathy while being equally determined and strong. AND she was suffering greatly. These things can be true at the same ti…
Jan. 1, 2024

Redefining Success: From Big Law to Self-Care

A killer conversation with Julian Sarafian, former big law attorney turned private practice advocate for content creators, social media influencers, and startups. Julian's journey is a revelation about the intense pressures …
Dec. 25, 2023

Embracing peace in the wake of loss

A REAL conversation about losing Mom. Christina Fichera is back - and unpacks her recent experience of watching her mom die and the random hospice pamphlet that changed her own grieving process.
Dec. 19, 2023

How to begin again, NO MATTER WHAT

“Embrace the suck.” Not quite what I expected to hear from Marine widow Erin Nichols as she opens up about her commitment as a young wife of a deployed soldier, her husband Sam’s catastrophic injury while serving in Iraq, an…
Dec. 7, 2023

Imposter syndrome, DEI=B, and reframing the word “should”

I often wonder, “Who do I think I am? I’m having conversations around topics that I don’t fully understand. What if I say something wrong…what will people think?” Yep, imposter syndrome still rears its ugly head with me - …
Nov. 27, 2023

Speaking y(our) truth by getting out of your head

Sara Bareilles sings, “...let your words be anything but empty…” and I discuss this concept with Eliza Maroney as a guest on her podcast last Spring. AND, in listening back to the podcast, I notice a slightly hollow sound in…
Nov. 20, 2023

We decide the end of the story even when we didn’t choose Chapter 1

I can’t get over this deep convo with Albert Chavez and the commonalities we share, despite vastly different backgrounds. A boy raised around violence, addiction, and fear teaches this “educated” white girl about excellence.
Nov. 14, 2023

It’s not grandiose or sexy - but it sure is effective!

Join me and guest Kathleen Klug, author of "Start With ONE," as we explore the power of small actions in achieving big dreams. Discover why starting simply can be your best strategy!
Nov. 7, 2023

Reframing ADHD and it’s about time!

In this episode, I'm joined by Michelle Raz, co-founder of Thrivister and an advocate for recognizing ADHD as a gift. We explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting children with ADHD, sharing personal experiences and p…
Guest: Michelle Raz
Oct. 30, 2023

Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 2)

Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The e…
Oct. 23, 2023

Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 1)

Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The e…
Sept. 6, 2023

Make something pretty out of this mess

Join me and Christina Fichera as we reflect on life's challenges from our unique perspectives. We discuss how beauty intertwines with pain and the complexities of sharing personal struggles. The episode includes insights fro…
Aug. 14, 2023

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Aug. 14, 2023

Rewriting the stories we tell and the ones we were told

In this episode, I join forces with Ronna Detrick to explore the impact of our personal narratives. We delve into the origins of these stories, from spiritual texts to family tales, and discuss their profound influence on ou…
Guest: Ronna Detrick
June 8, 2023

I am back and a bit more REAL..Jen goes from crickets to full-disclosure

After a six-month hiatus, I return to discuss a challenging personal period. Joined by coach Emily Nascimento, we aim to encourage openness about personal struggles and mental health, and the importance of self-care and auth…
Dec. 15, 2022

REAL sex education (part 2 with hubby)

In this episode, we dive into an adult version of the sex talk, featuring Allison Carver and her husband Ian. We explore dismantling outdated beliefs about sex and relationships, with Ian providing a candid male perspective.
Nov. 28, 2022

REAL sex education (part 1)

This episode features a frank discussion with Allison Carver about misconceptions and shame surrounding sex. We focus on reconnecting with our bodies and challenging unhelpful cultural narratives about sexuality and feminine…
Nov. 13, 2022

Psychedelic assisted healing - a legal game changer for many

This episode delves into the use of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy with Dr. Alya Ahmad and Dr. Tasnim Khan. We discuss how this approach helps in treating PTSD, depression, anxiety, and chronic pain. The conversation highli…
Nov. 2, 2022

Grey-area drinking and other honest admissions

In this episode, Lisa May Bennett and I discuss our experiences with grey-area drinking and sobriety. We explore how alcohol affects our ambitions and the tough choices involved in pursuing a fuller life, highlighting Lisa's…