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How do we name this episode??? And other questions about touch.
June 3, 2024

How do we name this episode??? And other questions about touch.

This conversation was a little edgy, but so illuminating for me. I connect with Jaclyn Foster, the insightful author of "I Touch Myself" and we navigate awkward waters with laughter and REAL talk. There is more to consider with the intricacies of self-love and the art of body awareness. Plus, we …
Am I allowed to call you disabled? And other confusing questions…
May 20, 2024

Am I allowed to call you disabled? And other confusing questions…

A REAL conversation with Alycia Anderson - a wheelchair user who responds with candor to discriminatory assumptions and uncomfortable conversations that happen in her presence or after she has rolled away.
When Motherhood Looks (and feels) Different
May 6, 2024

When Motherhood Looks (and feels) Different

I learned so much during this conversation with Emelda De Coteau. Our motherhood journeys look very different - as we talk about the emotional terrain of raising a child with unique needs.Tears were definitely shed in this episode; Emelda speaks honestly about her journey as a mother to her vibran…
Sisterhood: We are Stronger as a Collective!
April 22, 2024

Sisterhood: We are Stronger as a Collective!

I am back with the insightful Christie Watrous for a heartfelt conversation on the intricacies of sisterhood. We get REAL about the social conditioning that often pits women against each other and share our own journeys toward meaningful connections. Christie and I discuss our shared passion aro…
Pleasure is our birthright
April 8, 2024

Pleasure is our birthright

My conversation with Christie Watrous expands my limited viewpoint…again. We unpack what it means to connect with our bodies and each other, defining intimacy and pleasure in REAL terms. Spoiler alert: intimacy and pleasure are not always sexual and wow sometimes they are - AND it can look differen…
Two women and a conversation about race and grace
March 18, 2024

Two women and a conversation about race and grace

Here I am, a white chick, learning what’s appropriate to ask of a black woman when it comes to her lived experience. Thank God for Wanda Smith who is grace and wisdom embodied into one beautiful human. I ask a lot of careful, race-related questions because I am so afraid of doing it wrong - but she…
The Valentine letter I received
Feb. 17, 2024

The Valentine letter I received

A love letter ended up in my hands. It’s the week of all things LOVE and I’m feeling moved to record an impromptu, mini-episode with just us…you and me – as I share a message received on Valentine's Day. I hope that revealing something this personal - and then unpacking all that it represents - set…
REALity check: Listening to our bodies
Feb. 13, 2024

REALity check: Listening to our bodies

Another REALity check on the couch with one of my besties - Christina and I share honest stuff about our bodies and how to process emotions and the sensations we feel. It gets pretty personal at points.
Adversity to REAL Impact with Dr. Sarah Almilli
Feb. 1, 2024

Adversity to REAL Impact with Dr. Sarah Almilli

This talk with Dr. Sarah Almilli underscores the very reason I started this podcast! We start with my recap of when I was called a racist (among other fun things) on social media – and my determination to pursue conversations that broaden my limited perspective.AND, Sarah delivered a REAL convo t…
A spiritual conversation with no suitable title
Jan. 15, 2024

A spiritual conversation with no suitable title

I love convos where we explore spirituality without arguing religion, dogma, and “which faith corners the market on righteousness.” My beliefs have shifted profoundly over the years and a spirit of inquiry and exploration feels like church to me. Thanks Kerri Naber for going there with me!
This is the face of PTSD?
Jan. 8, 2024

This is the face of PTSD?

Megan O’Connor was a 15-year career firefighter and medic when I met her; a woman of huge kindness and empathy while being equally determined and strong. AND she was suffering greatly. These things can be true at the same time.
Redefining Success: From Big Law to Self-Care
Jan. 1, 2024

Redefining Success: From Big Law to Self-Care

A killer conversation with Julian Sarafian, former big law attorney turned private practice advocate for content creators, social media influencers, and startups. Julian's journey is a revelation about the intense pressures of high-powered professions and a testimony to choosing work on our own ter…
Embracing peace in the wake of loss
Dec. 25, 2023

Embracing peace in the wake of loss

A REAL conversation about losing Mom. Christina Fichera is back - and unpacks her recent experience of watching her mom die and the random hospice pamphlet that changed her own grieving process.
How to begin again, NO MATTER WHAT
Dec. 19, 2023

How to begin again, NO MATTER WHAT

“Embrace the suck.” Not quite what I expected to hear from Marine widow Erin Nichols as she opens up about her commitment as a young wife of a deployed soldier, her husband Sam’s catastrophic injury while serving in Iraq, and their 13-year journey after his traumatic brain injury.
Imposter syndrome, DEI=B, and reframing the word “should”
Dec. 7, 2023

Imposter syndrome, DEI=B, and reframing the word “should”

I often wonder, “Who do I think I am? I’m having conversations around topics that I don’t fully understand. What if I say something wrong…what will people think?” Yep, imposter syndrome still rears its ugly head with me - and I am reminded of the reason for this podcast. I am meant for conversati…
Speaking y(our) truth by getting out of your head
Nov. 27, 2023

Speaking y(our) truth by getting out of your head

Sara Bareilles sings, “...let your words be anything but empty…” and I discuss this concept with Eliza Maroney as a guest on her podcast last Spring. AND, in listening back to the podcast, I notice a slightly hollow sound in my voice - an honest revelation of where my head was at.
We decide the end of the story even when we didn’t choose Chapter 1
Nov. 20, 2023

We decide the end of the story even when we didn’t choose Chapter 1

I can’t get over this deep convo with Albert Chavez and the commonalities we share, despite vastly different backgrounds. A boy raised around violence, addiction, and fear teaches this “educated” white girl about excellence.
It’s not grandiose or sexy - but it sure is effective!
Nov. 14, 2023

It’s not grandiose or sexy - but it sure is effective!

Join me and guest Kathleen Klug, author of "Start With ONE," as we explore the power of small actions in achieving big dreams. Discover why starting simply can be your best strategy!
Reframing ADHD and it’s about time!
Nov. 7, 2023

Reframing ADHD and it’s about time!

In this episode, I'm joined by Michelle Raz, co-founder of Thrivister and an advocate for recognizing ADHD as a gift. We explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting children with ADHD, sharing personal experiences and professional insights. Michelle's expertise in coaching those with executive…
Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 2)
Oct. 30, 2023

Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 2)

Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The episode contains sensitive content on domestic violence. Viewer discretion a…
Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 1)
Oct. 23, 2023

Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 1)

Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The episode contains sensitive content on domestic violence. Viewer discretion a…
Make something pretty out of this mess
Sept. 6, 2023

Make something pretty out of this mess

Join me and Christina Fichera as we reflect on life's challenges from our unique perspectives. We discuss how beauty intertwines with pain and the complexities of sharing personal struggles. The episode includes insights from key resources like "The Body Keeps the Score," "Big Magic," and the "We C…
Trailer
Aug. 14, 2023

Trailer

Rewriting the stories we tell and the ones we were told
Aug. 14, 2023

Rewriting the stories we tell and the ones we were told

In this episode, I join forces with Ronna Detrick to explore the impact of our personal narratives. We delve into the origins of these stories, from spiritual texts to family tales, and discuss their profound influence on our lives. The focus is on the power of revising stories that no longer serve…